Bespoke Beauty Day-After Hair Care Guide

Because your hair deserves a little love after all the magic (and hairspray).

Hey beautiful,
You did it. You’re married! Yesterday was filled with love, laughter, and probably a lot of bobby pins. Your hair held beautifully through hugs, tears, and dancing — and now it’s time to give it the reset it deserves.

All the hairspray and texture powder can be kind of drying to your hair. So how do you care for your hair after your wedding day?

Included in your wedding prep kit were steps 11-13. Those are for today! Heres the rundown!

Step 11 – The Deep Clean

Use the product labeled Step 11 – Reset Shampoo.
Your hair likely has a buildup of product and natural oils from your big day. This shampoo gently but thoroughly removes all the styling residue without stripping your strands. Wash rinse and repeat to get all that product out!

💡 Tip: Rinse with warm (not hot) water and massage your scalp well to lift away all the buildup.

Step 12 – Deep Conditioning Treatment

Apply Step 12 – Deep Conditioning Mask from mid-lengths to ends.
Let it sit for 5–10 minutes (or longer if you can — light a candle, enjoy a quiet moment as Mrs!). Then rinse to lock in moisture and shine.

💡 Bonus tip: If your hair feels dry or tangled from teasing and pins, comb through the mask gently with your Wet Brush to help detangle while conditioning. Start at the ends and work your way up to remove tangles.

Step 13 – The Aftercare Boost


After rinsing, apply a few drops of a lightweight oil to your ends while damp. It keeps them nourished and helps repair any stress from styling.

Step 14 – Rest & Recover

Let your hair air dry if possible today. Give it a break from hot tools and let it breathe.
If you have extensions, this is a great time to gently detangle and store them properly until you need them again.

Pro Tip:

For the next few weeks, use a deep conditioner once a week to keep your hair hydrated and soft. Think of it as a little “thank you” to your hair for holding up through all the love, laughter, and dancing.

You’ve had your perfect “becoming” moment — now it’s time to care for the beauty that carried you through it.

xoxo,
Stacia