Welcome to the Bespoke Beauty Blog

Written By Stacia Sothman

~ A space for brides, vendors, and creative magic ~

Hey, Bride

I’m Stacia—bridal hairstylist, extension specialist, wellness girlie, calm morning enthusiast, and founder of Bespoke Beauty LLC.

I’m so glad you found your way here.

This blog is something I’ve been wanting to create for a while—not just a space to talk about hair (though I’ll definitely do that), but a place for brides-to-be, vendors, and anyone planning a wedding in Iowa or beyond to come for real, helpful, and inspiring content.

You can expect:

  • Vendor spotlights featuring the incredible people I get to work with

  • Styled shoot highlights and behind-the-scenes moments

  • Tips for planning a stress-free wedding morning

  • Extension education + natural product faves

  • And plenty of love for my small-town, big-dream brides

Whether you’re newly engaged or deep in the planning process, my goal is to make this blog feel like a deep breath and a warm hug. You deserve to feel confident and supported—and that starts way before your wedding day.

So let’s kick things off with the most asked question I get:

Why Should You Book Bespoke Beauty for Wedding Hair

If you’re searching for a bridal hairstylist in Iowa who’s more than just someone to curl your hair and go… you’re in the right place.

I started Bespoke Beauty LLC because I wanted to offer something different. Something softer, calmer, more luxurious—but also real. I don’t believe in cookie-cutter beauty or high-stress mornings. I believe in intentional service, non-toxic products, and showing up fully for my brides with every tool, timeline, and bobby pin ready.

Here’s what makes the Bespoke Beauty experience special:

💇‍♀️ Timeless Styles That Last (Extensions, Too!)

My specialty is romantic, lived-in bridal hair that actually holds—no crunchy curls or helmet-head here. Whether you’re going for soft curls, a low textured bun, Hollywood waves, or something boho and effortless, I’ll help bring your vision to life.

Need more fullness or length? I offer bridal hair extensions in Iowa that blend seamlessly with your natural hair—so you feel like you, just elevated.

🌿 Clean Products, Always

~ Why Clean Haircare Matters (and How I Make It Feel Like a Breath of Fresh Air)

When it comes to your wedding hair, I truly believe in doing things gently — on your scalp, your body, and the planet. That’s why I’ve chosen Natulique, a salon-grade, certified-organic haircare line made in Denmark.

Natulique is all about quality and ethics:

Here's how using Natulique translates to your wedding-day experience:

  • Your hair gets the movement and hold you want—with none of the heaviness or product fog.

  • No itchy scalp halfway through photos.

  • You don’t have to choose between performance and wellness—we get both.

🌬️ Because You Shouldn’t Feel Like You’re Sitting in a Product Cloud

I also bring along my mini air purifier and a cute personal fan during your trial and wedding day. A little something extra that helps keep the air fresh and your space feeling light—not smothered in hairspray. You deserve to breathe easy while getting ready.

Soft, breathable, glam hair without compromise

  • Natulique = certified-organic, non-toxic, high-performance Danish haircare

  • Mini air purifier + personal fan = zero product cloud stress

  • You'll walk down the aisle feeling as good as you look—and that's the point 💛

🎁 More Than Just Hair

You’re not just booking a style—you’re getting a whole experience:

  • A custom hair prep routine to get your hair wedding-day ready

  • A detailed bridal hair checklist sent 6 weeks before your wedding

  • A thoughtful day-of gift and a fully stocked emergency kit

I think ahead so you don’t have to.

📋 Organized, On Time, and Fully There for You

After your hair trial, I’ll send a full plan and timeline (if we haven’t already made it!) so the morning runs smoothly. I’m happy to coordinate with your photographer, makeup artist, or planner to keep the energy flowing and avoid any timeline stress.

I’ve been told more than once that I’m one of the most organized bridal hairstylists in Eastern Iowa, and honestly? I take that as a huge compliment. I care deeply about how your day feels—not just how it looks.

🌍 I Travel Wherever Love Takes You

I’m based in Brooklyn, Iowa, but I regularly travel to Iowa City, Des Moines, Cedar Rapids, The Ozark’s, Galena, and beyond. Whether your wedding is in a historic farmhouse, a dreamy mansion, or across the country—I’ll be there with my kit (and calming energy) to make sure your hair is the last thing you stress about.

Ready to Make Magic?

If you're looking for an experience that’s peaceful, intentional, fun, and beautiful—from the very first message to the last spritz of hairspray—I’d love to work with you.

✨ Inquire here or shoot me a DM on Instagram @bespoke_beauty_llc to get started.

Thanks for being here. I can’t wait to share more.

XOXO,
Stacia

Stacia Sothman